10 Questions You Can Ask When Going Through Tough Times

common questions to ask to solve problems
  • Why do things like this keep happening to me?
  • Why am I not surprised that I keep failing?
  • I always lose just when something good is about to happen for me. I must be a loser.
  • My mother/father (add person here) was right, I’ll never amount to anything.
  • My life is such a mess.
  1. What’s the opportunity in this experience?
  2. How could I look at this experience differently?
  3. What’s something good that can come out of this?
  4. What lesson do I need to learn from this?
  5. Even though this is happening, what are some good things that are happening right now?
  6. What am I giving my attention to?
  7. What am I grateful for right now even though things may seem to be going against me?
  8. Five or ten years from now, as I look back on this experience, how do I want to remember it?
  9. Why is this experience necessary for me to become the person I want to be?
  10. What is one small step I can take today to start turning things around?

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