How to Express Your Uniqueness While Staying True to Yourself

Why Being Yourself is the Only Way to Live an Authentic Life

Neel Raman
5 min readAug 17, 2021

As you learn more about yourself, you will know how to better express your uniqueness while staying true to yourself.

The only way to live an authentic life is to always stay true to yourself and what you value. The challenge most people face is knowing how to be themselves when there is so much pressure to conform or adapt to how they think they should be.

Ralph Waldo Emerson said it best, “To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.”

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What Does it Mean to Express Your Uniqueness

You have been born with gifts and abilities that no one has. There will never be anyone who is the same as you. This makes you unique.

To express your uniqueness means to:

  • Acknowledge and share your gifts with others.
  • Know what’s important to you and commit to it.
  • Not pretend to be someone you’re not.
  • Communicate and act that shows the real you.
  • Not compare yourself to others.

Things You Will Gain When You Express Your Uniqueness

When you can confidently express your uniqueness, things you will gain include:

  • You will not waste mental energy deciding who you should be or how you should act just so you can fit in with others.
  • You will attract people who resonate with you, which means you will develop stronger relationships.
  • You will have higher levels of clarity and less mental chaos or confusion.
  • You will feel inner peace and experience more joy.
  • You will respect and love yourself more.

Having the confidence to express your uniqueness while staying true to yourself will make life easier because you will accept yourself for who you are and step more into your personal power.

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5 Ways to Express Your Uniqueness While Staying True to Yourself

Here are five ways you can express your uniqueness while staying true to yourself, so you can feel good about how you are living your life and who you are becoming.

  1. Share and communicate what you love with others. The things you love makes you unique. When you share what you love with others, they will know more about the real you. This will help you develop stronger, genuine relationships.
  2. Find your creative outlet. Everyone’s creative. This means you need to express your creativity. Examples can include dressing the way that makes you feel good, or spending time on your passions or hobbies. Painting, writing, drawing, and making things using your hands are ways to express your creativity. The key is to do things that generate positive emotions.
  3. Design your physical environments. This can include decorating your workspace or the rooms in your home to express your uniqueness. Making things visually attractive will show what you value.
  4. Speak your truth, even if it’s difficult. This is often challenging for people because we’ve been conditioned to act or behave according to the situation we’re in. Speaking your truth is freeing and will generate more self-confidence. If something needs to be said, say it. People will respect you more for speaking your truth.
  5. Let go of the comparison trap and focus on what brings you joy. There isn’t anyone like you which makes it pointless to compare yourself to others. There are things you do well and there are things others do well. Focus on what you want to achieve and who you want to become.

Final Thoughts

You don’t have to search long to find what makes you unique. The things you love and bring you joy are clues to your uniqueness and greatness.

When you express your uniqueness, you are choosing to be yourself and a more authentic person, which will help you live a joyful life.

Action Step: On a scale of 1 to 10, where 1 is the lowest and 10 is the highest, rate how well you express your uniqueness. If it’s not a 10, ask yourself, “What are small simple steps I can take to express more of my uniqueness, while staying true to myself?”

Question: What are other ways you can express your uniqueness while staying true to yourself?

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