How to Overcome the Five Common Types of Demotivation

5 Ways to Motivate Yourself Again and Recommit to Your Priorities

Neel Raman
5 min readDec 8, 2020

It is helpful to know the common types of demotivation if you want to perform well consistently and achieve the things you want.

Your level of motivation is key to your creativity, focus, and productivity. Your motivation will influence the actions you take, which will determine the results you create.

What Causes Demotivation?

A person may experience demotivation because of:

  • Unclear priorities.
  • Lack of confidence.
  • Feeling bored.
  • Personal challenges related to health, finances and relationships.
  • Not receiving acknowledgement they believe they deserve.
  • Feeling overwhelmed.
  • Setbacks or disappointments.

How to Know if You Are Demotivated

The signs that suggest you are demotivated include:

  • You do not have the same level of focus when doing things as you normally do.
  • Your quality of work decreases.
  • You do not keep your commitments or meet deadlines.
  • Your mood changes frequently.
  • You do not maintain your daily rituals.

If you want to maintain a high level of motivation, it’s important to identify then overcome the common types of demotivation.

common types of demotivation

What is the Impact of Demotivation?

Demotivation will affect:

  • Your productivity.
  • Your attitude or morale.
  • How you communicate.
  • Your mental and emotional states.
  • Your ability to lead or serve others.

What Are the Five Common Types of Demotivation?

Before you can address the common types of demotivation, you must identify them first. They are:

  1. Lack of clarity.
  2. Experiencing loss.
  3. Feeling exhausted.
  4. Fearing making a wrong decision.
  5. Feeling isolated or lonely.

How to Overcome the Five Common Types of Demotivation

Here are five strategies you can apply to overcome demotivation, so you can motivate yourself again and recommit to your priorities.

  1. Overcome lack of clarity through self-reflection. If you are not clear about what you want, you will focus on the wrong things and get off course. Take time to contemplate and define what you want. Create a vision for the different areas of your life, then set meaningful goals.
  2. Overcome loss by allowing yourself to grieve. Loss is painful. If you have lost someone because of death, end of a relationship, or a financial loss, give yourself time to grieve. Forcing yourself to get motivated again will not serve you in the long run. Practice self-kindness and allow the emotions you are experiencing to surface and then let them go.
  3. Overcome exhaustion by focusing on your self-care. You are just as important as anyone in your life. If you are always focusing on the needs of others at the expense of your needs, it will affect you. Self-care includes having enough rest and sleep and focusing on your overall health and wellness.
  4. Overcome the fear of making a wrong decision by identifying risks and rewards. You won’t know if you have made a wrong decision if you do not decide. Indecision is a decision. Identify the potential risks involved and what you will gain if things go the way you want them to. If the rewards outweigh the risks, make a decision.
  5. Overcome feeling isolated or lonely by spending time with those who are important. Human interaction and connection is critical to your well-being. If you feel lonely and isolated, it means you are not spending time with people you want to. Give yourself a break and do things that give you joy with those who play a significant role in your life.

Final Thoughts

Everyone experiences a dip in motivation, therefore do not be too hard on yourself when you do. If you can identify the signs of demotivation and apply strategies to overcome them, you will focus more on what matters to you.

The better you can deal with demotivation, the higher your chances of achieving what you want or doing the things valuable to you.

Action Step: If you have missed deadlines recently, find out why you did. If you have any of the signs that suggest you are demotivated, apply the strategies suggested to motivate yourself again.

Question: What are more ways to overcome the five common types of demotivation?

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